This “rosy retrospection” leads us to remember past events more favorably than they truly were, often overlooking the reasons we moved on. We might romanticize places we once lived, forgetting that we left them seeking better opportunities or personal growth. Similarly, we may yearn for old friendships that have faded, not acknowledging that some relationships ended for valid reasons.
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Living for Today: The Trap of the Perfect Tomorrow
Like it was for my father, for many of us, the big moment, the special turning point we have been waiting for, may never arrive. The idea that everything will align just right and we will reach that idealized life can be an illusion.
Starting Year Two in the Counseling Program
Group Counseling has been on my radar since the beginning of the program. My personal experience with group counseling many years ago was eye-opening and incredibly valuable for my growth, so I have been curious to learn what it takes to become a skilled group counselor.
Final Week of Summer Quarter: A Short Pause Ahead
I will take a short break from posting here on the blog. Don’t worry, though. I will be back on September 10 with an exciting update! In that post, I will share the courses I will be taking in the Fall quarter and reflect on my expectations for the journey ahead.
The Challenges of Making New Friends in Midlife
As we age, we prioritize emotional stability and comfort. I don’t know about you, but after a long day or week of work, I enjoy the ease of my backyard and the series I want to catch up on. However, this can make us less inclined to disrupt our well-established routines to make room for new friendships.
Making New Friends in My 40s
Maintaining social connections has tangible health benefits, including a positive impact on physical health. Research suggests that people with strong social networks tend to live longer, healthier lives. By making new friends, I am reducing my risk of social isolation, which is linked to various health issues, including depression and cardiovascular problems.
A Year in Review: My Favorite Blog Posts So Far
Last week, I shared a reflection on my first year in the counseling program. Today, I would like to highlight my favorite blog posts.
Reflections on My First Year in a Counseling Program
Counseling is about understanding others and about understanding myself. In this sense, the first year of the program brought some emotional moments. Exploring personal history, examining biases, and confronting uncomfortable truths about myself were integral parts of the training. This process, while not always easy, has helped me grow.
Sitting With Discomfort as a Counselor in Training
This ability to sit with discomfort rather than rush to solve problems for clients fosters a more supportive environment where clients feel heard and validated in their experiences. It encourages clients to explore their own issues and find their own solutions, promoting self-efficacy and resilience.
Coping with Eco-Anxiety: A Counseling Student’s Reflection
I hope that we can see eco-anxiety as a reflection of the impact we have on our planet and a call for collective action, not just a disorder waiting for a diagnosis, prescription, or treatment plan. As professionals called to advocate for our clients, we cannot become numb to the destruction of the environment and the pain it causes.
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